well if you like sex with men and sex with your wife as well then you are Single women wants sex Lacey bi and this is your forum. Being married to a woman and cheating on her with men is any different than being married to a woman and cheating on her with other women. You probably need a regular therapist as well as sex addiction group Mood suggests if your behavior is out of control. But above all you should ask yourself if you are doing your wife any favor by staying with her. term, are you both better off staying together. Is she getting what she needs form you, it seems perhaps you are not getting what you need form her. Obviously, no one here tell you there is one thing wrong about having sex with men. It is the cheating part you need to deal with.. Some of us here are married and have fun homo sex on the side with approval from spouse, but that takes a special spouse..